An independent guide for family members caring for a relative at home. Not a medical organisation, pharmacy or care service, and not connected with the former website on this domain; it does not replace advice from a doctor. In an emergency, call your local emergency number (in Russia 103 or 112).

care at home: there is no panacea, there is a system

Care at home: there is no panacea, there is a system

When an elderly or frail person spends more and more time at home, their family takes on a great many small tasks. None of them solves everything at once, but together they add up to a routine you can rely on. Here we put that routine together piece by piece — calmly and without promising miracles.

There is no cure-all. What there is, is habits: a light in the hallway, a list of prescriptions on the fridge, a note in a notebook every morning. That is what care that lasts for months, not just a week, is built from.

— Editor's note

Where are you starting?

A safer home

Lighting, rugs, thresholds, grab bars — how to walk through the home and spot fall hazards before the first bruise.

Skin care and hygiene

Washing, changing bed linen, regular repositioning and a daily skin check for someone who spends a lot of time in bed.

Medicines on schedule

A pill organiser, one shared list and a clear schedule help you avoid missing what the doctor prescribed and avoid mix-ups.

When to call for help

Warning signs, the FAST test and your local emergency number: what to do if your relative suddenly gets worse.

Guide sections

  • Topics

    A map of topics: home safety, daily care, prescriptions and doctor's visits, the carer's own strength. Plus the article catalogue.

  • Prevention

    A fall-proof home: how to go through the home room by room and remove whatever is easy to trip over.

  • Daily care

    Hygiene and skin, drinking and food, movement and positioning — the everyday basics of care and their limits.

  • Tips & facts

    How to tell reliable care advice from advertising, myth or someone else's story passed off as a rule.

  • Ask the doctor

    What to ask the doctor and nurse about monitoring at home, the medication schedule and warning signs.

  • Glossary

    Words that come up in conversations about home care — briefly and without medical detail.

  • Sources

    What the guide is based on, what it leaves out and where its limits are.

A morning check-in in five steps

  1. Wellbeing and speech

    Say hello and chat for a couple of minutes. Notice how the person answers, whether they recognise you, and whether there is anything odd in their speech or facial expression that wasn't there yesterday.

  2. Skin and position

    Look at the areas pressed hardest against the bed and help the person change position. How often to reposition is something the doctor or nurse will advise.

  3. Drinks

    Offer a drink the person likes and put it where they can reach it themselves. How much to drink during the day is for the doctor to decide.

  4. Prescriptions by the list

    Check the prescription list against the pill organiser: is everything in place, is anything left over from yesterday? If something is unclear, don't guess — ask the doctor.

  5. A note in the care diary

    Two or three lines: how they slept, whether they drank, anything you noticed on the skin, their mood. Notes like these help the doctor see changes that a single visit cannot reveal.

The essentials in brief

Are you a care agency or a home nursing service?

No. We do not make home visits, provide carers or offer any services. This is a guide that helps families organise care themselves and turn to professionals in good time.

Can you recommend a carer, a product or a medicine?

No. We do not recommend specific people, organisations, products or medicines. What is right for your relative is for their doctor to decide; for help at home, ask your local health and social services.

What should I do if my relative gets worse?

If life is at risk, call your local emergency number straight away (in Russia 103 or 112). The signs of a stroke are easy to remember with FAST: Face (one side drooping), Arms (weakness in an arm), Speech (slurred or unusual speech), Time — call an ambulance immediately. Report less sudden changes to the doctor.

What if I'm exhausted and can't cope any more?

This is a common and understandable state, not a weakness. Try sharing tasks with other family members, arrange at least short breaks, and ask your local health and social services what support is available. If you are feeling low, tell your own doctor how you are.

About the project

This domain was previously used by a commercial company's website, and later unrelated advertising appeared here. The current guide has no connection with either: it has different authors and different aims, and it sells and delivers nothing.

The name comes from the word "panacea" — an imaginary remedy for every ill. We start from the opposite idea: there is no universal remedy, but there are habits and routines that make caring for a relative easier and safer. Those habits are what we describe.

  • Prevention

    A fall-proof home: how to go through the home room by room and remove whatever is easy to trip over.

  • Daily care

    Hygiene and skin, drinking and food, movement and positioning — the everyday basics of care and their limits.

  • Ask the doctor

    What to ask the doctor and nurse about monitoring at home, the medication schedule and warning signs.

Sources

  • WHO — materials on healthy ageing
  • WHO — materials on falls prevention
  • Ministry of Health of the Russian Federation — public information leaflets

Information is current as of the date of preparation. Arrangements for home medical care, social services and paperwork differ between countries and can change — check the details with your local health and social services.